Chasti-tea

Held May 2003 and June 2004 at Providence Assembly of God, 353 Elmwood Avenue, Providence, RI 02907

Event Type:

Outreach to Teens and Girls
Purpose: Encouragement of Purity
Location: Church Fellowship Hall or other large room for reception
Invitation: Formal Inviation
    Dearly Beloved,
    Join us at a Victorian tea just for you.
    Sponsored by Women's Minsitries of [Church]
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Use wedding invitation kits available at office supply store
Room set up: Decorate room Victorian style, including trellis
Food set up: Serve finger sandwiches and tea cookies, and a variety of teas
Borrow china from members of the congregation
Favors: Use a frilly photo holder for her picture and promise
If budget allows, purchase promise rings.
Music Use chamber music
Introduce the girls during "One of a Kind" (Danibelle)
Message: Use a younger speaker who has remained pure or a woman who has not and learned her lesson after Christ changed her. Put an emphasis on His deep love for her, and her choices to follow him
Ceremony: Escort each girl under the arch on the arm of her father if available, or respected men in the congregation. Introduce as God's Princess (daughter of the King!) and snap a picture for the photo holder.

In the inner city we deal with unplanned pregnancy regularly. This was done as a preventative measure, but also to affirm the girls and their value. Each girl sat with her escort and was made to feel special.